Meaning of ‘thugs’ depends on your perspective
Sometimes when you say or type a phase or a word, people will take it a number of different ways, and perhaps not the way it was intended.
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When Doug Conroy, coach of the Ringgold-based Little Rams Wrestling Program, posted on Facebook a phrase that included the word 无毛视频渢hugs无毛视频� in reference to a video of two 18-year-old Ringgold students apparently assaulting a 16-year-old student, he was informed by the Ringgold School District that his team could no longer use the facilities at Ringgold High School while he was the coach.
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Conroy is fighting the decision, but has since stepped down so his team can continue to practice.
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I was making my way back to my apartment one night, traveling down an alley that I usually trekked through. The back part of an establishment called Campus Casino was dominated by billiard tables and the back entrance of it spilled down some steps onto this alley. The front part of the place was mostly video games usually being played by college students, but sometimes the groups that took over the pool-playing area weren无毛视频檛 the most esteemed people, especially at night.
Just as I was reaching that point of the alley, a crew of males in T-shirts and blue jeans streamed out of Campus Casino, seemed to immediately notice me and formed a semi-circle in my path.
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He walked down the rest of the alley with me, I turned left, he turned right, I said 无毛视频渟ee ya,无毛视频� to him and he smiled and just waved and went on his way.
I never saw him again and never did find out if he was an actual member of the Nittany Lions football team or a wrestler or what. I just know I appreciated what he did for a young, frightened college kid.
When you read this story, I无毛视频檓 not sure how you envision it in your own mind, but I feel I should make the picture a little clearer for you.
The 无毛视频渢hugs无毛视频� were all rough-looking white guys. The 无毛视频渇ootball player无毛视频� who came to my rescue was black.
But what if it was the other way around? What if the 无毛视频渢hugs无毛视频� were black and the rescuer was white? Would that mean this was a completely racist story and would I then have people calling in and demanding the 无毛视频-Standard relieve me of my duties?
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I don无毛视频檛 believe Conroy had race in mind at all when he put up that post on Facebook.
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But, in closing, I did want to add this: If the person who did rescue me from that alley on that night many years ago happens to read this and remembers the incident, please contact me. I just wanted you to know that, even years later, I appreciated you standing up to those 无毛视频渢hugs无毛视频� for me.
Rob Burchianti can be reached at rburchianti@heraldstandard.com or on Twitter at @rvburch.